The Hand Sanitizer Trick That Unfreezes Car Door Locks in Seconds
It was minus twelve, I had a 7am shift, and my key went into the door lock and then simply refused to turn. So I did what panicking people do: I forced it. The key bent, actually visibly bent, like a bad spoon, and I spent the next twenty-five minutes running an extension cord out of my kitchen window to point a hairdryer at a car door while the wind took most of the heat somewhere else. I got to work fifty minutes late with numb hands.
Two weeks later it happened again to my neighbor, in the same parking area, and he walked over to his glovebox, pulled out a bottle of hand sanitizer, squeezed some onto his key, slid it in, and opened the door in about fifteen seconds. He wasn't even smug about it, which somehow made it worse.
I have kept a small bottle in my coat pocket every winter since. It has worked every single time.
Why it works when hot water doesn't
A frozen lock is a few drops of water that got into the cylinder, from rain, a car wash, or just humid air, and then froze into the pin channels. There's barely any ice in there. It just happens to be in exactly the wrong place.
Hand sanitizer is mostly alcohol, typically 60 to 70%, and alcohol dramatically lowers the freezing point of water. When it reaches that ice it doesn't melt it with heat, it chemically changes the mixture into something that can't stay frozen at your local temperature. That's the same principle as commercial lock de-icer, which is essentially alcohol in a small bottle at a large markup.
Hot water does the opposite of helping. It thaws the ice for about forty seconds and then that water, now sitting deeper in the lock and in the door seams, refreezes into considerably more ice than you started with. And thermal shock on very cold glass is a real way to crack a window.
Step 1: Stop forcing the key
The moment a key resists turning in cold weather, take it out and stop. Car keys are relatively soft metal and the cylinder is stronger than the key, so what breaks is always the key, and a snapped key inside a lock is a locksmith call, not a delay. If it feels like the key is turning "through" something gritty, that's ice shearing, and more force is the wrong answer. This one rule is worth more than every other step here.

Step 2: Put the sanitizer on the key, not in the lock
Squeeze a pea-sized blob onto the blade of the key and spread it along both sides with your fingers. Coating the key is much more effective than squirting gel at a keyhole, because the key carries the alcohol directly to where the ice actually is, deep in the pin channels. Squirting it at the opening mostly decorates your door. Use a proper alcohol-based sanitizer, check for at least 60% alcohol, because the "moisturizing" low-alcohol ones are largely water and will make things worse.

Step 3: Insert gently and wiggle, then wait
Slide the key in as far as it will comfortably go, wiggle it side to side a few times without turning it, and leave it there for about 30 seconds. The wiggling spreads alcohol across the pins; the waiting is what does the work. Almost everyone's instinct is to try the turn immediately, and almost everyone's first attempt fails for that reason alone. Count it out. Thirty seconds feels much longer than it is when you're cold.

Step 4: Reapply once, then turn slowly
If it still won't go, pull the key out, re-coat it, put it back in and wait another 30 seconds, then turn with slow, steady pressure rather than a jerk. Two rounds have handled every lock I've met, including one that had been rained on and then hit by an overnight freeze. If the third round does nothing, the problem probably isn't the cylinder, it may be a frozen latch or linkage inside the door, and no amount of gel at the keyhole will reach that.

Step 5: Wipe the paint down immediately
Once you're in, wipe any sanitizer that ran down the door with a cloth. Alcohol left sitting on automotive clear coat can dull or haze it over time, and it will strip wax off on contact. It isn't going to destroy your paint in one morning, but the drip line under a door lock is exactly where people end up with a visible mark after a few winters of doing this. Ten seconds with whatever cloth is in your car.

My Expert Tip: Treat sanitizer as the ambulance, not the treatment. Gel contains glycerin and thickeners, and those stay behind in the cylinder after the alcohol evaporates, glycerin is hygroscopic, meaning it actively pulls moisture out of the air, so a lock you've rescued with gel several times can end up freezing more readily than one you've never touched. The fix is to follow up that evening with a proper lock lubricant: a puff of dry graphite or a PTFE-based lock spray, which displaces water and leaves nothing sticky. Never use general-purpose oil or WD-40 in a lock cylinder, it gums up the pins and collects grit. Sanitizer gets you to work; graphite stops it happening again.
Step 6: Make it not happen next winter
Before the cold sets in, spray the cylinders with a lock lubricant and cover each keyhole with a small piece of electrical tape or a fridge magnet overnight. Thirty seconds a door, once a season. Water can't freeze in a lock it never got into. If you use a car wash in winter, work the key in and out a few times afterward and give the locks a shot of lubricant, because that's how most of this water gets in there in the first place.

What the bottle in my pocket is worth
Fifteen to thirty seconds, versus the twenty-five minutes and the bent key of my hairdryer morning, and against the $180 a locksmith near me quotes for extracting a snapped key, which is the version of this story I very nearly got. Three winters, half a dozen frozen mornings, no failures.
Mostly what it bought me is not standing in the dark at minus twelve feeling stupid, which is worth more than the time.
Two notes for modern cars. If yours is keyless, you still have a physical key blade hidden in the fob and a keyhole under a small cap on the driver's door: find both now, in the warmth, rather than discovering them during an emergency. And if it's the door itself frozen shut rather than the lock, don't yank the handle, because plastic handles snap in the cold: press firmly along the edges of the door with your palms to break the ice in the rubber seal first.
If you're heading into winter, put a small bottle in your coat pocket tonight: then hit the share buttons below and send this to whoever in your life is going to text you from a parking lot at 6am.